Great Questions & Loving Responses

Sisters ... It has been wonderful watching as the interaction between you all continues to grow. Last week Mandy Nolt posed a couple of great questions in one of the comments that I asked her permission to share with you on the front page BLOG. I am also sharing the a wonderful comments that Caroline Capper responded with.

Mandy's questions: If we are supposed to think about Heaven all the time, and given that we won't really have our family unit in Heaven (we'll all be one family, right? And Lonnie won't be my "husband"), where does my family fit in right now? I have to (and want to) do the day-to-day taking care of Corbyn and Lonnie and not just let my mind focus on the eternal constantly. It's a nice thought, but can we really, truly have our minds on Heaven and disregard the rest here on earth?

Another question I have is: What if I don't really want the "glory of God" and treasures and riches and to be a king (queen) and reign and have a mansion. Am I supposed to want those things? What about giving God all the glory and Him having all the authority? What about being humble?

Caroline's comments: Mandy, when I read your question, I was so happy to know that someone else felt the way I always did. I never wanted to be anything but a wife and mother and homemaker. I've never cared about "fancy" things. For me, the best days are the "normal" ones when we just go about our daily routine and our family is together. I don't long for jewels or fancy clothes, houses, etc. When I read about heaven, I felt guilty because I didn't want all of that and God has planned it as a wonderful gift for us. I just wanted trees and grass and my garden and my little house with my family inside and friends coming over. Now, since I've come to know Jesus, I do long to be in His presence and praise Him. I never want to leave Him and He has become the most important thing in my life. I can completely understand that. But, I still love and want those other things, too.

I did find hope in Ray Vander Laan's teachings---you might like to look him up at "Follow the Rabbi". Pastor Jay showed a clip from one of his teachings on the Hebrew wedding tradition. He talks about how the Hebrew families lived in insulae. They were large complexes built around a central courtyard. The whole family, along with the extended family, all lived together. Ray feels that we'll be together in a similar way in heaven.

I believe that God wouldn't have made families if He didn't think they were really important. He even placed His Son in a family. If it's important to Him, I don't believe that it will end. I believe that we'll be reunited with our husbands, wives, children, parents, grandparents, etc, and will have a wonderful time of reunion with Jesus as our center, our King and our Lord. Eventually, I believe that our "circle" will expand. Mandy, just think of all the fun people we'll get to meet. And we'll have all eternity to do it in. No more rushing and having to say 'goodbye'.

I know that the place where God lives---the Holy City and His throne room are magnificent places just as they're described in the Bible. But, I've come to realize that Heaven is much more than just that. Its huge. There are gardens (Rev. 22: 2 says the tree of life is there and we know that the tree of life is in the Garden of Eden. I wonder if that means that the Garden is in Heaven?) and trees and rivers and all the things in nature that we love (and that God has made for us) and Jesus said that He's preparing a place for us. That has to mean a home.

Randy Alcorn says in his book, "Heaven", that "In the Present Heaven, we’ll be with Christ, and we’ll be joyful. But it won’t be our permanent home. We’ll be looking forward to our bodily resurrection and relocation to the New Earth. (Our loved ones won’t go to New Earth before we get there. We’ll go together to colonize the New Earth!)" You really need to read that book.

We'll eventually be coming back here after God has renewed the earth. But then, it'll be perfect. No more sin and sadness. No more fear and hate. Mandy, it'll be everything we love and so, so much more. We'll have God and Jesus right with us forever. We will have a different sort of relationship with our husbands and children, but I know that we can trust Jesus to make it perfect.

Mandy, sometimes I get so lonesome for Jimmy when he was a little boy. I want to hold him and feel his little arms and hands and kiss his little cheek and run my hand over his hair. It's hard and yet, I love knowing him as a man, too. I don't know just how this will all work, but I trust Jesus. We are so limited in our thinking and experience. Sometimes I think that God just must be shaking his head and laughing at us, knowing what wonders await. What if the butterfly clung to her poor old caterpiller body because she loved it's familiarity? She would never fly on a summer breeze or sit on a perfect rose in the morning sunlight. I can hardly wait!

I love you, Mandy, and am so glad to know you. Caroline